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		<title>Comment on Walking Away from a Potential Client by bronxboy55</title>
		<link>http://thehappyfreelancer.com/2012/05/08/walking-away-from-a-potential-client/#comment-1796</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 11:25:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I read this post, it occurred to me that freelancing and blogging are similar in some ways. Readers are like clients, and at first we&#039;re so thrilled someone is paying attention to us that we&#039;re incapable of recognizing the signs warning us to stay away. Eventually we develop an instinct that helps us avoid those connections that just aren&#039;t a good idea. As you said, that gives us more time to pursue the relationships that will be mutually beneficial.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I read this post, it occurred to me that freelancing and blogging are similar in some ways. Readers are like clients, and at first we&#8217;re so thrilled someone is paying attention to us that we&#8217;re incapable of recognizing the signs warning us to stay away. Eventually we develop an instinct that helps us avoid those connections that just aren&#8217;t a good idea. As you said, that gives us more time to pursue the relationships that will be mutually beneficial.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Things Writers Should Avoid by bronxboy55</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[bronxboy55]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 11:18:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I often say that I want to just lock myself in a room and write, with no outside contact. It would probably work for a while, but eventually it would become more and more difficult to connect with readers. Thanks for the reminder, Heidi -- especially Point 6.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I often say that I want to just lock myself in a room and write, with no outside contact. It would probably work for a while, but eventually it would become more and more difficult to connect with readers. Thanks for the reminder, Heidi &#8212; especially Point 6.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Walking Away from a Potential Client by cooperstownersincanada</title>
		<link>http://thehappyfreelancer.com/2012/05/08/walking-away-from-a-potential-client/#comment-1760</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 00:57:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some more great advice. Thanks for sharing this, Heidi.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some more great advice. Thanks for sharing this, Heidi.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Walking Away from a Potential Client by geannie</title>
		<link>http://thehappyfreelancer.com/2012/05/08/walking-away-from-a-potential-client/#comment-1757</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[geannie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 22:02:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Of course it is okay with me.  It can be difficult to be nice in the face of that kind of response to a perfectly legitimate statement or question, but I managed.  Somehow.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Of course it is okay with me.  It can be difficult to be nice in the face of that kind of response to a perfectly legitimate statement or question, but I managed.  Somehow.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Walking Away from a Potential Client by heidit</title>
		<link>http://thehappyfreelancer.com/2012/05/08/walking-away-from-a-potential-client/#comment-1756</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[heidit]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 21:50:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for commenting. Sometimes we forget what the rate works out to on an hourly basis. We hear $100 for a job and we forget that by the time the job is done, we might have worked for $5 an hour. At that rate, is it really worth it?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for commenting. Sometimes we forget what the rate works out to on an hourly basis. We hear $100 for a job and we forget that by the time the job is done, we might have worked for $5 an hour. At that rate, is it really worth it?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Walking Away from a Potential Client by rangewriter</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 21:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[These are all wonderful points. Freelancers should keep this list front and center when answer the phone or emails about potential business. Do we really want to work for $5 an hour? Yes, cleaner than flipping burgers, but just as demeaning, eh?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These are all wonderful points. Freelancers should keep this list front and center when answer the phone or emails about potential business. Do we really want to work for $5 an hour? Yes, cleaner than flipping burgers, but just as demeaning, eh?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Walking Away from a Potential Client by heidit</title>
		<link>http://thehappyfreelancer.com/2012/05/08/walking-away-from-a-potential-client/#comment-1754</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[heidit]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 20:52:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That&#039;s a terrible situation to be in. But definitely good that you didn&#039;t wind up working for a client who is willing to use the words &quot;stupid&quot; or &quot;idiot&quot; in a potential business relationship. I may use your note in my next blog post (how to walk away from a potential client), if that&#039;s okay with you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a terrible situation to be in. But definitely good that you didn&#8217;t wind up working for a client who is willing to use the words &#8220;stupid&#8221; or &#8220;idiot&#8221; in a potential business relationship. I may use your note in my next blog post (how to walk away from a potential client), if that&#8217;s okay with you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Walking Away from a Potential Client by heidit</title>
		<link>http://thehappyfreelancer.com/2012/05/08/walking-away-from-a-potential-client/#comment-1753</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[heidit]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 20:51:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for your comments, Kelly. I agree, it&#039;s tough when you&#039;re hungry for the money, but passing on some jobs is definitely worth it. &quot;I don&#039;t know why I&#039;m calling you...&quot; is definitely not a good start.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your comments, Kelly. I agree, it&#8217;s tough when you&#8217;re hungry for the money, but passing on some jobs is definitely worth it. &#8220;I don&#8217;t know why I&#8217;m calling you&#8230;&#8221; is definitely not a good start.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Walking Away from a Potential Client by Kelly Parry</title>
		<link>http://thehappyfreelancer.com/2012/05/08/walking-away-from-a-potential-client/#comment-1752</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kelly Parry]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 20:31:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Awesome post Heidi. It is tough when you are hungry for the money but worth it to pass on some folks - especially the one you describe. I had a fellow referred to me through one of those networking groups. I was given heads up about his calling from the person who referred me but she wasn&#039;t clear on what I do anyway. His first words were &quot;I don&#039;t know why I&#039;m calling you...&quot; not a good start. The proceeded to launch into a hundred questions about videos etc. So I wrote him a nice long email about what I saw on his website, advice on improving his YouTube channel and a host of other things. Never heard from him again. But the exercise was good for me :-)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome post Heidi. It is tough when you are hungry for the money but worth it to pass on some folks &#8211; especially the one you describe. I had a fellow referred to me through one of those networking groups. I was given heads up about his calling from the person who referred me but she wasn&#8217;t clear on what I do anyway. His first words were &#8220;I don&#8217;t know why I&#8217;m calling you&#8230;&#8221; not a good start. The proceeded to launch into a hundred questions about videos etc. So I wrote him a nice long email about what I saw on his website, advice on improving his YouTube channel and a host of other things. Never heard from him again. But the exercise was good for me :-)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Walking Away from a Potential Client by geannie</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[geannie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 19:57:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[6.  You are using a website that connects potential clients with writers and you&#039;ve given a potential client a proposal.  The client then asks you to contact another username for further details.  This, alone, seems a little strange and you have a thought that this other username is for a potential client that maybe is trying to get new writers, but has a bad reputation and is trying to cover it up.    You decide to go ahead and give the situation a chance, but you cannot find said username on the website in question so you inform the potential client of this.  The client then asks if you are &quot;stupid&quot; or an &quot;idiot&quot; and do you or do you not use Skype/MSN/Yahoo/whatever other messenger the client had in mind, but failed to provide.

Yeah.  That was a fun situation, but extremely easy to leave a note saying, &quot;I am sorry, but I am not going to be able to work with you.  Please disregard my proposal.  Good luck.&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>6.  You are using a website that connects potential clients with writers and you&#8217;ve given a potential client a proposal.  The client then asks you to contact another username for further details.  This, alone, seems a little strange and you have a thought that this other username is for a potential client that maybe is trying to get new writers, but has a bad reputation and is trying to cover it up.    You decide to go ahead and give the situation a chance, but you cannot find said username on the website in question so you inform the potential client of this.  The client then asks if you are &#8220;stupid&#8221; or an &#8220;idiot&#8221; and do you or do you not use Skype/MSN/Yahoo/whatever other messenger the client had in mind, but failed to provide.</p>
<p>Yeah.  That was a fun situation, but extremely easy to leave a note saying, &#8220;I am sorry, but I am not going to be able to work with you.  Please disregard my proposal.  Good luck.&#8221;</p>
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